Magic can be sometimes used for evil, but what about love?

Is it ethic to make someone fall in love with you when the other party is not interested in you? forced love?

Or would it be better to make just a spell to attract his/her attention to you and let him/her decide if he is in love with you?

anyway , I find love spells to be amazing in some cases. Specially those to attract (non manipulative spell) targeted to a particular person.

In 1988 I was working for a big company in Spain, I knew no one there because I was pretty new and my spanish was really bad! I made some friends in the company but the one I really like to be more than “just friends” never ever noticed my presence in the office. He just say “hello” and “good bye” , lol, those were only the two words I heard from him for an year. some time later I decided to use one of the spells I have in my proven spells collection, “attract him to you egyptian spell” , was a very easy ritual to do every friday night and a little amulet to wear everytime I see him. after a few weeks I noticed he began to talk more to me, be more attentive and even one time he ask me to lunch with him!!! He also gave me his IM address and we started a nice friendship afterhours chatting from home. I discovered a wonderful man, hidden behind that iron-made armour he used to wear in the company. after a few more weeks he asked me out to dinner and we ended in a romantic night near the river. we dated for a year or so till I had to come back to Australia.

I think this case was “pure love” but I needed that “help” from spells to start the relationship.

I Know some people are suffering because of divorces, recents break ups, and would do anything to get their partner back.

please let me know your thoughts about how far would you go for love (about spells)

blessings!

10 tips to attract a man

Once your partner left your life, you figured it was time to celebrate. Go out with the girls, live it up, have some “me” time.

Well, it’s been about six months, and if you have to read one more article called “I Will Survive,” you’re going to scream.

Immediately after a separation , women often feel empowered. Well, depressed and fat first, but then empowered. They’re ready for independence and “girl power.” Friends begin ending phone conversations with “You go, girl!” And you even find yourself repeatedly saying, “I don’t even want a man right now.”

Sure you don’t. And if you’re happy sitting on the couch, cuddling up to your two cats, Kitty and Ben, then don’t bother reading any further. But if you’re ready to get out there again, you’re gonna need some ammo.

Work it.

You know what I mean: I’m talking about you and your fear of skin. Show a little. I don’t mean Julia Roberts in Erin Brockovich, but maybe something from her Mystic Pizza days.

Work out.

Did I mention that Tip #1 is contingent upon the success of Tip #2? If you don’t work out, you can’t work it. Get yourself on the elliptical a few times a week, and not only will you look better in your new, revealing wardrobe, but you’ll feel better and exude confidence.

Shut up.

Enough with the long stories already. First meetings call for shallow conversation, not your memoirs.

Be mysterious.

This is the 21st century version of playing hard to get. Girls in the 20th century took this too far — never acting interested, never calling back… You know who you are. These days, hold back some information. Don’t divulge the details of your brief stint as Tori Spelling’s personal assistant; just allude to it. He’ll be begging for more.

No scowling.

My gorgeous friend Miranda is a scowler. Scowls at everyone in the place. When she asks, “Why can’t I get a guy?” our friends tell her she intimidates men. She looks like a bitch. No one will tell her so I’m telling you.

Show your smarts.

Acting ditzy is like so 1996. You watch CNN. Dazzle him with your knowledge of the Nasdaq, not Nickelodeon.

Be seen.

You’ve got a VCR, probably even Tivo. You can tape Buffy. Just get out there and let the world know you’re available… without looking available. Make him say, “Who’s that girl I keep seeing around? She certainly looks mysterious and smart.”

Network.

You may think your best friend’s boyfriend is a waste of time, but don’t count him out. No, I don’t mean steal him — talk to him. Talk to all guys even if they’re taken. They have friends, co-workers and second cousins. And they have much better taste than your girlfriends.

Graduate from seventh grade.

Hey, you’re an adult. Don’t giggle with your friends and send one of them over to tell the guy you think he’s fine. I don’t care how many tequila shots you’ve had. You wouldn’t write his name on your book covers, would you?

If all else fails, girl… make the move.

Why should we always leave it up to them? If you’ve followed the first nine tips, then you just may have the confidence to approach the guy yourself. What’s the worst that could happen? Wait; don’t answer that.

Meeting in Person for the First Time

After spending adequate time chatting with someone, you have finally reached a point that the two of you want to meet. After all, with online dating, this is the goal in the first place so seeing it come to fruition is exciting! Just as you took precautions when first starting out on the dating service, you now need to use a new set of precautions when meeting in person.

• Always meet in a safe, public location where there are other people around. Make sure a friend or family member knows where you are meeting, the time you are meeting, and the time you will be leaving. If you are not sure how long the meeting will take, use your cell phone to call the friend or family member when you leave so they know you are on your way home. Typically, a restaurant or coffee shop would be the best choices. If you change your plans, always let someone know.
• Never have the person pick you up in his or her car. Instead, you need to drive your own car so you have the opportunity to leave if you feel uncomfortable or things do not go as planned.
• Set up the encounter on a day and at a time when YOU are comfortable. Do not feel pushed into meeting at a precise time or place. If the other person insists that you meet where they say and when they say, then cancel the meeting altogether.
• Do not feel bad if you decide to cancel at the last minute. Too often, people from online dating services are eager to get things going, bypassing the friendship/courtship phase. Just follow your instincts and if the person is not understanding about you changing your mind or becomes angry, then you know it was not meant to be.
• If you need to fly or drive to another city or state to meet this person, make your own hotel arrangements in a reputable hotel and do not share the information. Rent a car at the airport upon arrival so you can drive yourself to the hotel and to the meeting. Do not agree to meet at the hotel lobby, as the purpose is to have a safe haven should you need it.

Druidic practices -
a recipe for:

LOVE POTION TEA

needed:
one pinch of rosemary
two teaspoons of black tea
three pinches thyme
three pinches nutmeg

six fresh rose petals
five lemon leaves
three cups pure spring water
Sugar
Honey

To make a person fall in love with you, brew this tea on a Monday or Tuesday during a waxing moon (moving from empty to full).
Mix all ingredients in an earthenware or copper tea kettle. Boil three cups of pure spring water and add to the kettle. Sweeten with sugar and honey, if desired.

Before drinking, recite this rhyme:

BY LIGHT OF MOON WAXING
I BREW THIS TEA
TO MAKE [lover’s name] DESIRE ME.

Drink some of the tea and say:
GODDESS OF LOVE
HEAR NOW MY PLEA
LET [lover’s name] DESIRE ME!
SO MOTE IT BE

On the following Monday or Tuesday , brew another pot of the love potion tea and give some to the person you want to love you. She or he will soon begin to fall in love with you.

Fairy tales like , , Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and Snow White all tell us that the road to happiness starts by finding a beautiful princess or a handsome prince .

We have the paradygm that living “happily ever after” only can be reached through a romantic, passionate relationship. From very young, we hear stories that confirm this idea. There are countless books and images in our culture of unhappy, lonely persons who become more alive and start to flourish when they finally find their true love. The cases of “happily ever after” that we have read and seen for so many years foster an unconscious belief that a relationship will completely fulfill us.

When we finally meet a potential prospective for a relationship, we may fear that this may be our only opportunity to experience love, romance, and true happiness. Although this individual may not be our ideal partner, he or she is better than having no partner at all. At least with a partner, we have a chance to end our story like Cinderella, by living “happily ever after” with another person. Living “happily ever after” with another person is not an impossible dream for any of us to achieve.

While it is unreasonable to expect perfect harmony — no fights or disagreements, ever — we all have the potential to live “happily ever after” in the sense of creating and enjoying a loving, fulfilling relationship with another person. To achieve this, you cannot ignore any problems that you have with your partner in the initial stages of your relationship. Sweeping the problems under the carpet will not make them disappear. It is only a matter of time before they will come back to haunt you. Entering a relationship based on the fear of being alone is totally self-destructive. In this type of scenario, an individual will choose to be with just about anybody to fill the void he or she has in life. Desperation for love and romance to fulfill your desires may lead to a future of pain and suffering that could last a lifetime. If you ignore the problems, and allow your fears and insecurities to make your relationship decisions, you inevitably will have to face the consequences of your actions.

What are the consequences? If you have strong fears of being alone and feel only a relationship will make you complete, then I feel it might be time to start taking a long hard look at yourself. The willingness to give up your own values, morals, and interests for the sake of the relationship, in order to keep your partner happy, is in my opinion self-destructive. When you are desperate for a relationship with another, you can fall into a pattern of repeatedly giving up your own needs, until you have no life of your own left. With your energy fixated on your new partner, you become less interested in your own work, have less time for your family and friends, and start to ignore your own interests. The more you give up your own life, the more you lose your sense of self, the more you will need your partner to feel secure and whole. Eventually you will be in a situation where fear and need rule your life. You will be afraid to bring up problems with your partner lest they threaten the relationship that you need, but you will also be unhappy and empty within yourself. This occurs because when you give up your own life and live solely for your partner, you are subordinating your needs to theirs, and are chipping away at your own self-esteem. In my opinion, no relationship is worth this. When your partner comes to expect you to revolve your life totally around his or her life, I feel this definitely is not healthy for you. If you get yourself into this situation, this is a sign that you probably are not ready to be in a relationship. If your complete focus is only on the needs of your partner, you do not love yourself. No one with self-love would give up his or her life for the sake of having a relationship with another person.

Another consequence of not addressing issues at the beginning of the relationship is that you may not get to know your partner at all. When people do not take the time to get to know one another, they risk losing the relationship over time. Precious years go by, and then, all of a sudden, you wake up one morning and ask yourself, “Who the hell is this person lying beside me in bed? Why am I with this person? Why did I marry him/her?” Unfortunately, this not an uncommon situation: so many of us never truly get to know our partners. In the initial, euphoric stage of a relationship, it is not uncommon for people to confuse sexual compatibility with love; you may think your lover is a perfect match, only to find out later that you have nothing in common with your partner besides the chemistry that may fade over time.

This is not a perfect world, nor will it ever become a perfect world. We will always have relationships that will fail, and couples that will divorce one another. I guess what I would like to see is fewer relationship failures and fewer divorces. One failure out of ten marriages, in my mind, is a far more acceptable ratio than the current one out of two. Would you not agree that we would live in a much happier world if this were the case? One out of ten is achievable. One way to achieve this is by changing our “it’s broken — throw it away” mentality. In our society today, if something breaks, we throw it away and buy another one. It seems that we are using this disposable attitude in our relationships: if it is not working, we call it quits and find someone new. Relationships are not cars, or vacuum cleaners, or toasters; they are not disposable. If we took more time, up front, to ascertain whether or not two people are ready for a relationship, and are compatible, then I believe that fewer of us would be in the position of wanting to throw away a relationship. I caution everyone that compatibility is not a guarantee that conflict will never arise: relationships require daily maintenance and effort by both people. Recognize now that love takes a lot of work. It is energy well spent because it takes far more energy to dispose of a relationship and find a new one than it does to keep a current one healthy. By choosing well up front, and by doing the work to keep your relationship healthy, your life and the lives of those you love will be much happier.